Can you remember the time when things seems just right , when you don't need the care in the world , everything is like a clock working just perfectly? Are you living like that now?
Well whether the answer is yes or no , do you always blame the ill situation which cause you your predicament? Well i do , almost all the time, actually in fact I'm guilty of blaming everything around me instead of myself when things don't seem to go well ( Bet you can relate) .But have i always known that what happens to me is up to how i see the things around me, have you ever given it a thought?
Life and its situation rarely has anything to play how we feeling in that moment.It all comes down to our mind.As the phrase goes " you get lemons make lemonades", so regardless what we can still think its just right if we think that it is. But what stem us to feel so unhappy at our current situation ? I personally think its our human nature to compare, to compare the past and the present , to compare our own situations with others. See , what is happiness if there is no base line to be happy? When you compare, you set a line/ a goal for yourself to be happy, that line is the your comparison and most of the time that line wont be met because you are experiencing something different. So if you have nothing to compare yourself with wouldn't it mean that there is nothing to stopping from controlling where the line should set ? hahawouldn't it mean that you will be happy just where you are?
I for one m trying very hard to set that goal to one day live a life free from comparing because whats a life if everything you see is going to upset you.All and all i hope this would make me a better person one day.
What do you think? do you too suffer from this problem?
Wait for me ...Michelle
12:38 AM ; smile'
thePROFILE;
hey Aloysius here
currently slacking
and trying to figrure out
why fishball taste so good
so wish bert is here
to read this
theLOVE;
What i like?
lol,lots of stuff
but isnt it better
if u just ask me in person
-im an accepting person
and love new things
-got anything pls share
ideas,facts,feelings,opinion
you have it , shoot it
theHATE;
what i hate?
errr...i TRY not to hate things
theWISH;
wishlist?
haha i'll let u know
when i figure something
but a good start
-is to be a better person
-Less formal
-have fun
-connect with more ppl
-deepen what friendships i have
